Commemorate Heroes' Day: My Hero Is My Mother

Heroes' Day is an important moment to remember and honor those who have fought and sacrificed for the independence and freedom of the homeland. However, heroes are not just for fighters. In this moment, there is no one more valuable and a true hero in our lives than mothers. 

Mothers are figures who not only guide and protect us from birth, but also heroes who relentlessly fight for the happiness and success of their children. MAKUKU together with Dr. Rudy from Healthy Pregnancy Clinic held an Instagram Live with the theme "That Hero is Named Mommy "Peel Through Child Growth and Development Problems with Healthy Pregnancy Doctor" right on Heroes' Day this November 10th. Let's see why our mothers are called heroes.

The role of a mother, especially in the growth and development of the child?

The role of mothers is very important for children and families. Because the role of the mother is very crucial and influential on the development of the child when compared to the father or other family. Mothers also have more emotional ties to their little ones because they carry them for 9 months. This emotional bond is formed during pregnancy. Even some journals mention that children who lack maternal affection will feel uncomfortable, not confident and can trigger mental illness. There are 3 things that are most important in caring for your child, namely love, care and nurture.

What should a mother do to ensure her child can grow and develop well?

A mother must provide the right stimulation and give love to her child. With this, the child can grow and develop into a strong child. Giving attention and affection to the child can also affect the growth and development of the child.

Is there any impact on the child when he/she does not get affection since childhood from the mother?

If the child does not get affection from a mother, a hero figure in the family and for her children, then the impact on child psychologists. The child does not feel affectionate and unloved, is not confident, and is anxious. Mother's love is like a blank paper and mother can fill it with good and quality things to shape character and determine the future. 

Is speech delay in children one of the effects of lack of affection? if that happens what should mothers do?

That's right. Speech delay in children is a form of lack of maternal affection for their children. A child's first education is their home and parents. The role of parents is vital for children and become role models by showing inspiring figures for children. By giving excessive screen time, children do not get stimulation and do not get feedback from what they watch. While in the golden age children need two-way communication.

The first way to deal with speech delay in children is self-introspection and start thinking about what causes speech delay. If the cause is due to screen time then the activity must be stopped. Then, increase the child's stimulation by reading books, inviting him to talk, singing and teaching vocabulary. Because, tantrums in children can be caused by communication that the child cannot express.

Besides the role of mom, what can affect the growth and development of the child?

Many factors affect the growth and development of the child. The role of the mother as a child's hero is crucial starting from the age of 0-7 years Because in that age range, children really need a mother figure and her affection. While the father's role begins to dominate from 7 years and above to shape the child's personality and character. While other family members to improve their social communication. In addition to family interaction, growth and development is also influenced by nutritional intake in the first 1000 days or up to 2 years.

How to stimulate children to develop well?

Child stimulation can start from newborn. Child stimulation is the foundation that includes sensory and motor. One of the best stimulations is tummy time. According to a study of tummy time children can improve the ability of body muscles and become early gymnastics. Provide developmentally appropriate stimulation with colors and objects.